How To Date Safety On Maturesoul

At MatureSoul, user safety is a priority. To provide a pleasant meeting area, a place where long lasting and important relationships can be forged and maintained. Our work though can only go so far but at the end, you are always the best judge of your safety. These guidelines are not intended to be a substitute for your own judgment.

  1. Take things slow and steady, only jerks rush in
  2. Protect your contact info
  3. Do not get pressured into meeting
  4. Do not be afraid to ask questions
  5. When it’s time to end conversation
  6. Watch out for some signs of trouble 
  7. Request for member’s photo
  8. Move to the chat to the phone
  9. Make plans to meet somewhere safe
  10. Tell your friends and family members of your whereabouts

Take things slow and steady, only jerks rush in

Sure, everyone wants to believe in an instant true or pure love, the reality is that relationships are rarely forged this way. Trust and respect, after all, have to be earned. So even though online dating can speed up the meeting process, fact is there is no reason to throw all your inhibitions and better judgement away. If someone seems too good to be true, they probably are. Look out for behavior you might find bothersome or strange, and take the time to discover people’s true characters. This way, you can avoid any uncomfortable situations.

Protect your contact info

People will often ask for your personal contact info, but please be wary of members who do this at the early communication. You might eventually want to share this with someone you trust completely, never include your  house address, cell number, place where you work, or any other identifying information in your Internet profile . Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal or financial information or that attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it.

Do not get pressured into meeting

Once you have made the move from chatting to phone conversations, you will definitely want to meet the person you are communicating with physically. This is the natural progression for relationships that begin online, you just have to make sure you meet only when you are ready. Do not allow yourself to be pressured into meeting anyone if you are unsure.

Do not be afraid to ask questions

The pleasure of meeting someone online is that you never have to be uncomfortable. If you feel something is amiss, you can walk away and leave it at that. However, you will never know for sure unless you ask questions that move beyond typical chit chat. Finding out as much as you can is the best way to avoid surprises later on. Take it gradually and play it cool no pressure; after all, you don’t want to scare people away. But don’t be afraid to learn as much as you can from someone you are chatting with.

When it's time to end conversation

It is a good idea to restrict all contact with other members to our MatureSoul system. In fact, it is even prudent to be suspicious of member’s who immediately ask you to move the chat to other platform. The reason is that by moving to other platform systems, scammers and fraudsters can avoid having their activities and actions tracked. Keeping your communication on MatureSoul  will allow you a measure of security. But it’s up to you research and do your due diligence and also you should immediately stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal or financial information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it.

Watch out for some signs of trouble

Someone who is able to commit identity theft can definitely falsify a dating profile. When talking to someone you do not know, be wary of displays of anger or frustration as these may be signs of the person’s character. You should also be on guard if a person refuses to answer questions, talk on the phone or if they contradict information they have already provided, either in chats or on their profile. By keeping an eye out for these signs of trouble, you may avoid a sticky situation later on.

Request for member's photo


A photograph tells you a lot about a person, and can often compliment or contradict what they have told you. This is especially true in the case of people with multiple photos in different settings and situations. Here you may pick up on the person’s “unsaid” qualities: their character traits, sense of humor. For these reasons, you should never feel shy about asking for photos. In fact, if a person refuses to supply one, you would be right to think they were hiding something from you. With the proliferation of digital cameras, it’s easy for people to have access to a photograph.

Move to the chat to the phone

Once you have started to feel completely comfortable with someone, you may want to move the chat to the phone. Actually hearing a person’s voice will tell you a lot about the way a person is, how he or she acts, laughs and jokes. As a precaution though, it might be prudent to initially share only your cell phone number, and or using certain blocking techniques to avoid appearing on a call display. It is never a good idea to give a stranger your phone number, and it is against our terms of use to have this information displayed on your profile.

Make plans to meet somewhere safe

Sure, everyone wants to believe in an instant true or pure love, the reality is that relationships are rarely forged this way. Trust and respect, after all, have to be earned. So even though online dating can speed up the meeting process, fact is there is no reason to throw all your inhibitions and better judgement away. If someone seems too good to be true, they probably are. Look out for behavior you might find bothersome or strange, and take the time to discover people’s true characters. This way, you can avoid any uncomfortable situations.

Tell your friends or Family members of your whereabouts

Make sure you Inform a friend or family member of your plans and when and where you’re going. Also be sure you have your mobile phone well charged and with you always.
In matters of love and romance, there will always be complications and risks. This is the offline reality of life, life we live is also at risk, and in the online dating world, the same rules apply. You will find that while most people are honest and trustworthy, there are unfortunately always going to be those who feel the need to lie, cheat, and scam. A little prudence and care however, can go a long way. Good luck,have fun and hope you find your charming partner soon!